Suicide |Fear of Living|








Did you know that there is no word for "the fear of living"? At least I couldn't find one.

Pantophobia is the fear of everything. If you're afraid of everything, you'd be afraid of death (necrophobia), making it impossible for you to kill yourself.

Apeirophobia is the fear of eternity. If you're afraid that life will go on forever after we die, you're probably not in a rush to find out.

Not being afraid to die doesn't necessarily mean you're suicidal. You might argue that even suicidal people are afraid of killing themselves, hell it's kept me alive all these years. If you make the conscious effort to try, it's not death you are afraid of, it's pain.

So why does this matter?

Killing yourself doesn't mean you're not afraid of dying. It means you're afraid of living.

If you're so afraid of living that you're willing to commit suicide, I would ask you to try living your life as if you weren't afraid of dying instead. What's the worst that could happen?

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